Showing posts with label opinions. Show all posts
Showing posts with label opinions. Show all posts

Tuesday, 12 May 2015

The Wonder Woman


Hello Readers !! How are you all?

Mother's Day is one occasion when everyone gets a chance to express his/her feelings for that one woman, whose presence in our life is the biggest blessing of the almighty. 

If I try to define the word 'Mother', I will actually end up with a post of maybe countless number of pages. I am not exaggerating, I am telling the truth and I know you agree with my sentiments.

Almost everyone in this world was uploading pictures with their moms and posting statuses for their mothers. Now let me tell you how I celebrated Mother's day.

On May 10th, I was scrolling the morning newspaper when my eyes stopped at an article titled "Don't celebrate Mother's Day ", which indeed was a very curios headline.The article was about how Mother's Day was 'invented'. The lead caught my interest as it explained the real meaning of Mother's Day and how we all have been celebrating it.

After reading that article, I was amazed that how incorrectly we have been commemorating this day.

We have this habit of gifting flowers and cards to our mothers, just to tell them how much we love them. We believe that this small act will help us to show our affection towards The Wonder Woman
( for me Mother is definitely a Wonder Woman ).

But there is one more thing which we can do to make our mothers extremely happy. That one idea is far better than gifting cards and flowers.

Our mothers work 24x7, taking care of the whole family and devoting all her time for the betterment of the family.

Don't you think that on Mother's day, we can actually tell our moms to just relax and sit down with ease, without any tension or stress and her children can do all her work which she has been doing for us without uttering a single word of objection?

Don't you think that on Mother's Day we take an off from our busy routine and take care of the woman who has been taking care of us since the day we opened our eyes and saw her lovely face?

Well, this is how I celebrated Mother's Day. I made her feel comfy by doing all her work. Although I am very bad at cooking but still I tried to make some delicious food for her.

And at the end of the day, my mission was accomplished. I made my mom very happy. She blessed me and kissed me on my cheeks and said 'Thankyou my dear!' 

I am not saying that gifting cards and flowers is invalid or doesn't makes sense. But yeah, helping our mothers and taking care of her just like she does will leave a long lasting smile on her face.

I will be back with my new post very soon....

Take Care
Peace
:)


Monday, 4 May 2015

Introspecting Oneself

Hello Readers! How are you all?

Today I got to know something about which I was completely unaware. After hearing about it I realised that this is actually very closely related to me

Schizophrenia - a mental condition often characterised by abnormal social behavior and failure to recognize what is real.
This is the first line of the definition given by Wikipedia. Before you read further about this and make any speculations about me, let me tell you everything.

From the time I got admitted in class 5th, I was a sensitive child. You know...feeling bad about small things, complaining a lot to my teachers about my friends. They used to tease me, sometimes a lot. For them they considered this as a common fun which happens between friends. But for me..I took most of them to my heart.

Then, I started feeling alone many a times. My parents use to motivate me and explain me in their tender ways so that my mind can forget these emotional turmoils and learn to be always happy.

But, then those thoughts and those incidents which made me feel low kept on happening. History repeated itself almost everyday. These feelings started becoming unavoidable.

But finally, by the time I completed my high school I started getting rid off these sentiments. My heart started getting refueled with the confidence which had been lost for quite a long period. Thanks to my teachers and of course to my parents who kept on consoling me without losing hope.

This is what happens with a Schizophrenic person. This was my case.

Partho Roy, my senior at college told me about this condition because we both had sailed on the same boat. Its just that our timings were different. He suffered from this two years back and has recovered successfully.

Unfortunately, sometimes even now history repeats itself. My mind and my heart still goes back to that same emotional turmoil when people around me make my fun. And then I gather all my courageous confidence and start becoming normal.

I am proud that I also have recovered successfully from that mental state, just like Partho. But still those kind of incidents keep on happening and make me feel low. But then I have come to know about a hard truth of life.

People will keep on making your fun. Whenever you will climb the mountain of success, there will  be some jealous freaks who will try their hardest to pull you back. But you dont have to lose you courageous confidence and keep on climbing.

Remember this fellas!...

I will be back with my new post very soon...

Take Care
Peace
;) 

Thursday, 23 April 2015

The Loss Of Courtsey

Hello Readers! How are you all?

See I told you that I will be back with my posts.

There is a girl in my college who is my batchmate. She is infact the topper and a BIG LIAR. Actually I find it really hard to believe when someone says to me after getting 1st position that "dude, I just study a night before the exam".

I mean don't you find it difficult to accommodate this statement in your mind?

I am very sure that you also must have encountered such situations when people like her come and say the same thing. It feels as if the almighty has blessed them with a special power.

Anyways, let me not drag you somewhere off the topic and get back straight to what I want to say

I was just a normal college routine day. She entered the class and sat on her desk. I just turned back towards her and said "Hi!"

And she said, without replying to my Hi! , "Paurush do you have water?"

I know it may sound very normal to you. But let me tell you that why was this thing ABnormal for me. The reason was that she didn't reply to my Hi!

Yeah Yeah ! I sound very childish but you all expect a normal courteous reply from everyone whom you meet and wish, which I Believe is very natural.

And this has not ha[happened with me for the first time. It happens quite a lot. But still I try to control the birth of my anger and let it go.

I just want to say that PLEASE dont do this to anyone. You should never lose your courtesy and always reply to anyone's greetings. Remember, your behavior is your biggest asset and people remember you just because of your behavior.

What happened with me was a very small act of being rude. But yeah if you continue this practise, you will surely become a prey of someone's anger.

I will be back with my new post very soon..
Take Care
Peace :)


Monday, 20 April 2015

My Apologies

Hello Readers! How are you all?

I know there must be question in your mind about which is HOW ARE YOU???

Yeah I know you all must have been thinking where the hell am I? Have I migrated to some other planet ? Or have I got so many girlfriends that I just keep writing to them instead of writing here?

Haha..No nothing of that sort..

Actually I had been very busy. This month was very tiring for me as I was engaged in so many activities which cant be missed.

I had my Mid Semester exams, then I had my practical exams and also I was caught up in initiating many college activities. Oh yeah by the way, I want to share something with all of you.

It gives me immense pleasure to tell you all that I, along with my two college friends, have been selected for volunteering for a big time event, which is The National Film Awards, held in the capital every year.

I am sooooo happy(yeah I know my feelings sound I bit girlish, but cant help it ). I really cant believe that I will be a part of such an event. This is a great opportunity for me to witness which I have always seen on National TV. My happiness leaves me speechless.

And yeah now don't worry at all. Because now I have decided to be a loyal blogger and trust me I will never leave my readers in the middle of the shore.

So for now , I apologize for my disappearance and promise for my continued appearance.

Take Care
Peace
:)  

Monday, 6 April 2015

Its all OUR fault!

The most ignored but highly discussed topic...


Hello readers! How are you all?

Before starting this post, let me tell you something..

Do you know that our Mother Earth is crying?
Oh Yes! Everyday.. every moment. Our own Mother Earth, who brought us on this planet is now crying and screaming in deep agony. She has been requesting us from a very long time for our help to save her.

And do you know who is responsible for her pain? WE!!

We are the one who are constantly destroying our planet's resources. We are the one making this environment suffer, just to fulfil our greedy materialistic needs. We are the one who are destroying our natural resources and bringing this planet closer to annihilation.

If we take a look at the statistics, we will realise (I don't know when we will) that those figures are actually invented by us. We have made those figures to increase day by day. Dont blame the scientists..they are just doing their survey and presenting us the facts.

So now the question is.. What have we done till now? Have we done anything else but doing the opposite?

We talk about saving the environment. We swear oaths to plant more and more trees in the future. We promise ourselves not to pollute the rivers and use water carefully. We make so many promises but forget that they are never to be broken.

But do we all actually end up doing that ?

The answer is a BIG NO!!

The reason ; WE DON'T HAVE TIME. OUR LIFE IS VERY HECTIC. BLAH BLAH BLAH...

Oh come on! Don't refrain from your responsibility towards the planet by giving useless reasons. Yeah right! The reasons are useless because we take out time from our busiest schedule for little stuffs that pleases us. But we never think of spending time with nature, by taking care of it.

So.. don't just make fake promises. Its said its never too late. But I Believe that its is already very late. But this doesn't mean that we will forget this whole idea of saving environment. Lets take a stand.. and help our dear Mother Earth to prosper in a healthy manner.